Stepping outside the norm: Try other flavors besides your own

I like when I see Interracial couples, in my opinion I think it’s pretty cute but I’m not those type of people that will be all like “OMG you’re dating a Indonesian boy???!?! That’s so cool!!! We need more people like you!!” and blahhhhh blahhh blahh see that’s what you call Coo-coo Crazy! Hahaha I’m the type that will just say “aww well that’s cool, hope you two are happy” and keep it at that. Now, if ya’ll haven’t realized I’m what I like to call a Mutt (or crayon box) because I have a lot of ethnic backgrounds in my family (mainly black and native American)
but most people see me as a light skinned black girl or “that mixed girl” and how I see it, no matter who I date I guess it will be an IR relationship? I dunno but on to what I really wanna talk about coming as a “mainly black girl” and have dated (and sort of dated) black guys I want to change it up a lil, I want something different. I feel kind of bad or a lil weird when I say I want to try dating a Non-African American guy only because I don’t care about skin color and all that but yet I still want to have an experience with a guy with a different culture background than me. I mean when I see a guy I like (especially with Asians) I see them as a PERSON not for their skin ya know. I feel like a hypocrite and maybe I am I hypocrite and I will totally accept this but I gotta say: “I Love Asian Men” Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Vietnamese, Cambodian, Laotian, Filipino, you name it; I love it lol and I’ve seen other girls say how much they love “*insert race* boys”. So I don’t feel as bad when I obsess over Justin Chon rather than obsessing over Justin Beiber lol (no offence JB is a cool dude)


Don’t get me wrong though, I would date any race, I don’t discriminate (I’m a freaking Mutt for pete’s sake) the Asian race just so happens to be my favorite. We all have our favorite ice cream or a favorite pop flavor that’s how I see it. But that’s just me obviously and if you feel I am a hypocrite because I said I prefer Asian guys when I just said I look at guys without race and whatnot then… I’m sorry? I’m fully aware of this though. But touching more onto this blog post what I really want to share is that I believe that people should step outside the box, at least just once. Who knows, you might just like the experience. Like if you’re a black girl and you’ve only dated black guys all your life I would suggest changing it up a little find a nice white, Hispanic, or Asian that interest you. But most importantly I feel you should find someone that will love you for YOU whether they’re the same race or not.

Another thing is, I think more Asian men should step outside their race more because at least where I live you don’t see much Interracial dating with the Asian guys I mean if that’s the person they love most dearly that’s ok it would just be nice to see them at least step outside their comfort zone just a little. I’ve seen Asian girls with White guys but not a lot of Asian men with a non-Asian girl. So to put in bluntly: Asian men. Y U NO DATE OUSIDE YOUR RACE!